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Pray for your Kids & Grandkids


 
University of Arizona baseball Coach Jerry Kendal shared a wonderful story at a Men’s Conference I attended in Prescott, Arizona. When Jerry was a young boy he burst into his grandfather’s bedroom while Jerry was playing hide and seek with his siblings. He was startled to find his grandfather kneeling by his bed in prayer. When Jerry tried to apologize his grandfather told him to not worry – he said he was just praying for Jerry.   
 
I’m sure that every parent and grandparent prays for their children and grandchildren. I always prayed for their health and safety.  And I prayed for their faith, their friends and their future.
 
I prayed that they would have a vibrant personal faith in Christ. Each generation must decide for themselves if they will become followers of Jesus. Parents and grandparents can sow the seeds of faith in the next generation but each child and grandchild must decide for themselves who they will follow. The Old Testament leader Joshua said he and his family chose to follow the Lord (Joshua 24:15).
 
Friends are a vital part of a child’s development. This is true for young children and teenagers, too. Friends have a large influence in a child’s development. Teenagers are impacted by peer pressure too. Friends also provide encouragement and reassurance during those formative teenage years. Friends can draw your children closer to God or steer them away from Him. I prayed for good friends with a common faith.
 
I also prayed for their future. I prayed God would help them in their studies and guide them in their choice of careers. I also prayed they would find a spouse who shared their faith and values.
 
Author Tim Kimmel wrote a book titled – Extreme Grandparenting. In his book he emphasized how important grandparents are in the lives of their grandchildren. One of the most important things they can do is to pray for their children and grandchildren. The Apostle Paul instructed older men and women to live lives that younger generations would follow (Titus 2:2-4). I’m sure this included prayer. Let me encourage you to pray for your children and grandchildren every day. Pray for their faith, friends and future. Pray for their health and safety too. You will be glad you did and they will too.

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Mt. Rushmore

 
We took a number of road trips across the country when our children were young. We drove from Arizona to the east coast in 1982 and from California to the east coast in 1990. We stopped at many historic sites like Washington, DC, the Alamo and Gettysburg. We have seen the Liberty Bell in Philadelphia and followed the Freedom Walk in Boston.
 
Another memorable place we visited was Mt. Rushmore. Images of four presidents are carved into the side of the mountain. We pitched our tent in a local campground and enjoyed breakfast with four presidents in the National Park cafeteria overlooking the massive site. We went to the gift shops at most of these historic sites so our children could purchase something that would remind them of our visit. Our children usually wanted some trinkets that wouldn’t last very long while I wanted them to find something that would be more practical.  
 
Our time in the gift shop at Mt. Rushmore followed a typical pattern. The kids wanted some small toys and trinkets but I wanted something more practical. I found four plastic drinking cups with the image of Mt. Rushmore on them. They were both affordable and practical. The kids were not happy but I was determined. They did get to decide what color they wanted and we left the gift shop with four memorable and practical drinking cups. Those cups were purchased in 1985. Over the years the painted image of Mt Rushmore has faded and the lettering is completely gone. But we actually still have one of those four cups in our kitchen cupboard today. The trinkets would have been lost or tossed years ago, but one yellow cup remains.
 
I have tried to explain the story of the yellow Mt Rushmore cup to our grandchildren but they aren’t very impressed. I think it is pretty remarkable that this practical purchase continues to be used at our house. I think it proves I was right. My grandkids think I was very unreasonable to not allow my children to buy what they wanted. Their parents feel the same way. But the plastic drinking cup has become part of our family’s history. Now that I am a grandfather I may be willing to let my grandchildren buy trinkets or toys instead of more practical souvenirs. Practical doesn’t seem as important anymore. It is pretty hard for a grandparent to say no to their grandchildren!

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